Ouch. The gamut of human emotion is being run here.
For those other than the principals involved, my only advice is "judge not ,lest ye be judged".

I choose not to choose between those I have come to call friends, and hope to continue to call friends.
I'll find joy in the joyous things, and saddness in the sad things, and be empathetic to those feeling these extreme emotions.

Ok, one more post...

The reason nothing had been said on here about the divorce was because really, that was between Kim and myself. And quite frankly, I didn't want to see it spill over onto here. This is not the place for that kind of stuff. Those who did know about some of the happenings were told privately.

And I don't appreciate seeing a post show up in the middle of what was supposed to be good news - with what I can only determine to be an attack on myself. However, I've learned from my mistakes, and I will be no part of turning these forums into a battleground (which is what is seems like some would rather have). I figured that even those who did not know about what went on would have figured out when they met Tammy and Samantha or I mentioned them here. As for the divorce being final or not, I covered that earlier.

If you want details... I have tried to be as understanding, patient, and co-operative in regards to what needs to be done thus far. Judge for yourself if you feel so inclined...

Anyone who really wants to know what went on or wishes to comment on the divorce can e-mail me privately... and if I feel it's appropriate to answer, I will.

In my job as a moderator for this forum, I have decided to take it upon myself to close this thread.
I think it best to do, since the principal parties have had their say, and in my mind, other parties need not say any more than has already been said. I don't see anything positive coming from it.
I will assume that this will be ok with them. If I am wrong, please e-mail me.
My intentions are neutral and honorable, I assure you.