to be honest, i can see where some posts, though well meaning, could come across a bit 'strong' .....

on the other hand, muffy, i'm not sure if you actually WANT someone to come right out and ask you what's wrong (thereby showing concern) or if you want you 'privacy' since you only seem to say 'so much' and then leave us to 'wonder' about the rest.

i think most people at arlonet care about others in general..and some care about people in particular...and some just dont give a s*** at all.....but that's the way it is in life...not just here in blunderland.

perhaps a therapist or counselor or support group could be of some help to get you over the rough spots. just a thought...

have a good weekend....

Muffy, to put it mildly, WHY DO YOU STAY IN WOODSTOCK????

**I'll be the first one to realize, maybe, just maybe, moving sounds easier than it is!!! But I do know one thing for sure. When people treat me bad, I usually get the fuck out of the way! & Truth being, if I felt ostrasized by the whole town. I'd move where NO-ONE knew me!!!!<img src="http://www.arlo.net/ubb/smilies/evil.gif" width=15 height=15>

To paraphrase Todd. If someone sticks there butt, out there. I'm gonna take pop shots!

I'd take Sherry's advice.

Sincerely/RB